Cinderellaâ€™s story is unquestionably one of the most popular fairy-tales of all times. Both the old and the young are enchanted by the kindness and purity of Cinderella, and by the magic that transforms her into a real Princess.
Although this fairy-tale teaches us invaluable lessons on human kindness, it can also be interpreted as one which praises victimhood and creates false image on how positive changes happen in our life.
Symbolism of Cinderella characters from the perspective of accomplishing oneâ€™s dreams in life
CinderellaÂ embodies the individual who wants to accomplish his/her dream. TheÂ PrinceÂ symbolizes the dream that the individual has. Cinderellaâ€™s stepmotherÂ andÂ stepsistersÂ represent every obstacle that is on an individualâ€™s way to his/her dream. Among such obstacles areÂ challenges, difficulties, fear of failure, fear of what others will think of us, lack of self-belief and lack of self-confidence.
As Cinderella is oppressed by her stepmother and stepsisters, the same way individuals are often chained down by such obstacles in life and silently obey them.
But waitâ€¦ isnâ€™t it Cinderella who is the true owner of the house, which her stepmother took total control of? Â Yes, she is!Â Yet she willingly accepted her role as a servant. Similarly each human being is the master of his or her own life.Â However, like Cinderella, many people victimize themselves and let obstacles or tough times take away their inner power.
But you would argue,Â â€śIt is not Cinderellaâ€™s fault, it is because of the circumstances that she is inâ€ť.Â Let me explain. Cinderella, as any other human being, is nothing more but the result of all her decisions and subsequent actions. I agree that there are many things in life which we do not have any choice over, such as which family we are born in, what socio-economic environment we are raised in, what education we get. Of course, all this influences the way one is shaped as an individual.
But there is a time in life, my dear friend, when you are no more a 2-year old baby, who needs care, who is just learning to communicate its thoughts and who hardly knows anything about the world.
There comes a time that you are already a mature human being, who is capable of making conscious decisions and acting on them. You are the one to decide who you make friends with, what you spend your precious time on. you are the one to decide whether you are a victim or the leader of your life.
â€śTo accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.â€ť â€“ Anatole France
You and only you are responsible for your life
Responsibility? Most people are just too much afraid of this word. Why? Because it means that you must learn to become accountable for each and every action of yours to no one else but yourself. This means that you have no right to blame anything or anyone in your life. Scary, isnâ€™t it?
Coming back to Cinderella, my humble opinion is that it is not Â the stepmother or her daughters who are to blame for Cinderellaâ€™s situation, but it is Cinderella who was responsible for it (see I am not using the word to blame). Similarly in life, no matter what happened in the past, who caused you pain, no matter how many challenges and obstacles you have in your life at the moment, there is only one person responsible for the person you are now, and it is YOU!
You may also say,Â â€śBut Cinderella had a hope for a better future. She was dreaming about her Prince.â€ť Â Yes, she was dreaming but nothing more. This is the case with 95% of the world population, who have dreams about their future and again nothing more.
And here the story calls upon Fairy Godmother, who transforms Cinderella into a Princess with her magic stick. In my perspective, Fairy GodmotherÂ embodies the positive change in oneâ€™s life, which brings individualâ€™s dreams into reality.
The myth about overnight success
To me, this is the most heart-touching moment in the whole story. It just makes you believe in magic! Yet it also makes us believe inÂ one of the greatest myths of all times, meaning that â€śGreat accomplishments happen overnightâ€ť. They do not. Period.
Since childhood people are sold into the idea that if you are one of those lucky ones, then one day by some miracle your dreams will come true.
Just to make clear, I am a big fan of miracles, many have happened in my life. But I also know well enough the backstage story of what it takes to see and experience these miracles. I recall well enough that miracles started happening in my life following my decision toÂ become my own Fairy Godmother.
Well, back then I did not have a magic stick, but I had a passion for my dreams and I had faith in my heart. Those miracles did not happen in an instant, unlike Cinderellaâ€™s who was transformed in a few seconds. Those miracles took time and a lot of consistent efforts. Ahead are even bigger dreams and even more miracles to experience.â€ťIt takes time to be who you really want to be. It doesnâ€™t happen overnight.â€ť â€“ Chanel Inman
Look, even if Fairy Godmother cameÂ to me one night and gave me a chance to make all my dreams come true by some miracle, I would thank her wholeheartedly, but would prefer to realize my dreams myself. Sounds crazy, right? I know it does!
But to me nothing compares to the joy I feel when I have just accomplished something significant in my life due to my own efforts, not just by mere luck. I look back on my journey and I feel so proud of myself for overcoming all those challenges and difficulties on my way, for failing and learning from pain and bunch of mistakes I made, for growing even stronger and more mature, and becoming the human being I am today.
With all my love and respect,Â I dare you become your own Fairy GodmotherÂ and see miracles happen in your life.